Closure…

The woman I am Today

Just maybe closure with anyone is a myth, perhaps closure with yourself is the idea.

Nothing makes me sadder than me chasing closure, than me seeing other people do it to themselves too. It used to stress me out so much, seeking some silence, some sanity from someone who took it away. The harder I chased, the more it became elusive. And when people see that you’re seeking closure, that’s just one other thing they have over you.  Another thing they will probably use to keep you hooked. Its a vicious cycle really. It becomes a train wreck of emotional torment. Chained by an idea, the myth of closure, to a person who would rather be rid of you, and you of them.

What is closure really? Can anyone give it to you? Well I don’t know. I have ideas, but I think its a very relative term. And the fact that it…

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